When I met her she was also supporting her elderly parents, had a five year old son from an abusive previous relationship with a Filipino man and was working full-time to support them all. How many Westerners do this? To be frank, we met about six months after my first wife of 20 years passed away from a very aggressive cancer that killed her in under two years, and she was what made me want to even keep living.
Does my Filipina partner still sound like a mail order bride to you? I grew up in some pretty bad neighbourhoods in Melbourne, so know what the streets can dish out and the Philippines makes hard people, though it also makes caring people that roll with the punches in whatever life throws at them.
Mail order bride… ahuh, yeah right! Filipinas are the kind of woman you want standing beside you in battle actually. And yes, we share all bills too…. Why is there a stereotype about Philippinos and not about French women? I am just wondering. That is all. So true. Fucin old men with teenage girls. How can a country allow this. Population control and more sex education is required here.
Yes they do have compassion for health care, as I have experience, that I will admit. May 15 I see most of your comments are by the female gender. I married a girl, worked in Canada and had very small family in the Philippines. As I had been dating Asian women before I understand the need to support their families. No problem. Moved down to the Philippines and problems started.
The attitudes of Philippino people against me is staggering. The lack of support I get from my wife too makes want to warn all to stay single. One guy here, unlike my friend Paul with 40 individuals in his family, he made the mistake in opening his wallet. God rest his soul, as he passed away this year, probably stress related. I can appreciate the attraction I get from the Philippinos. Example, 68 year old Tony with a 38 year old girl, why…..
We Canadians deal with the gold-diggers and chain smokers, but not the whole bullshit outside of this. I have tried to comprehen the Philippinos ways and excuses are all that comes out. People marry and deal with problems together. Philippino, their way, no matter what the problem is. The problem sounds like it might be you. You need to grow a pair and set ground rules when it comes to family.
Supporting her third cousin just because of pressure from the family is a big no. This is no different. Maybe cheaper. Helping family… within reason. You need to do it. No free rides. Whatever works for you is fine but stick to it.
NO exceptions. Time to make changes before you become a door-mat. Let your wife know those changes will happen with OR without her.
Think about it… Does she love and respect you? Will she stand with you or is she in it for her family? This author may be the exception but over 90 percent of Filipinas are money-grubbing human cockroaches.
And no not every Filipino can get a USA visa. They want a white man to pay for them and their extended family. This is why you see losers with Filipinas in the USA. They have been long disowned by their families, have had drug issues, etc. On a positive note most Filipinas are beautiful and very intelligent and get good jobs in the USA usually nurses and end up supporting their loser husband.
Every country has scammers. Put any Ignorant rich foreigner in the U. When the money is gone, so are they…. Who put this idea in your head that the Philippines is some sort of utopia that only breeds perfect spouses? YOU did probably with some ill-advised YouTube info , and you paid for it. Reason why is because there has to be a reason why Filipinas are racist when it comes to dating — being only open to dating white men over any other race including their own.
Yeah for you two! Too many nosy people and haters out there. Chou and after reading that I feel a sort of outrage for Asian women who are with white men who exploit them so I think it is funny that some in your culture would find you licky to have a white man. After reading that book, the parts about exploitation by white men, it leaves a bad feeling. I have observed that, that is the case on some Filipinas. They get judged as if they know the stories behind. Filipina dating a foreigner is being seen like what you said in your article.
Maybe so iba, but not all. Your article gives comfort for those Filipinas who experienced those misconceptions. I also thought one time of having a relationship with a foreigner but sometimes may mga factors na pumipigil sa akin. If things really go well with him, why not?? He will be my first boyfriend if ever.. I agree a lot of Filipinos see western — white — people as a walking bank. A people who have to save and struggle to even travel to another island to visit family can think easily that someone who travels thousands of kilometers just to have a relaxing time swims in money.
I explained to the family how things work here in Europe and they were very surprised. My wife sends money, of her own salary, to her family on holidays and birthdays. She is the first to get mad at them if they dare to ask financial support. I really believe she loves me and i love her, i respect her for who she is and what she stands for as an equal of me.
We are really happy together and i hope this will last. If it goes wrong, it is the mistake of two people who lost each other out of sight, just as it happens — a lot — with western couples. I am a native Filipino man and I will tell you about my thoughts. Most negative comments here are true.
There are tons of women that are gold diggers and even us Pinoys are victim. Take note that Pinoy is a term for Filipino man and Pinay is for Filipino women. There are also plenty of Pinays that are caring, faithful, loving, loyal and great at household chores. I know a lot of them. You just need to look. This is my advice for all foreigner men who wants to marry our women and to have a successful and happy marriage. Please read carefully.
Ask about her education. It is worst if you are undergrad. So most likely they will find income somewhere else. Chances are they are hookers or if not, they just want a sugar daddy to support their vices doing clubbing, adventure and family expenses. If they will say their parents are irresponsible and they are financially down or you found out they are indeed financially down and not doing enough effort to solve it then git rid of her immediately unless you want to be a hero.
A genuine Pinay keeper is hard to get and will always make a way to get rid of you even if she likes you. You have to prove your worth in order for her to submit. The kind of income that is rich in Philippines and just average in US. Pinays like vocal men that is open and told him everything before hand. Pinays wants you to pay everything like food and rent. Trust me. Be caring and showy of love. You know we Filipinos likes niche, drama and romance. You could still convert her to be a good woman if you are being romantic and very good at sex.
You are lucky for our women also interest you because of your equipment but that is not enough. Most Pinays are not comfortable with large dicks. They are usually happy with your mouth skills alone.
I have small dick but pinays love me. I just pointed the most important things you need to know. Good luck. Thank you very good useful information , also only few may have BF already and they dope foreigner husband when they get to husband country then divorced and bring Filipino BF and marry him. But not all. Vincent, you really have given me encouragement.
I have had concerns since reading a lot of negative comments from certain foreigners who claim to have had a barrage of experienced with the Philippine culture. As a single foreigner, I feel I have what it takes to attract a beautiful intelligent pinay to marry. Let me be clear, I plan to get involve with a filipina is for all the right reason. Because of your comments, I now have a different view of what to expect why searching for the ideal lady in the Philippine. There appears to be a lot of bitterness from a few western men on this site who are now trying to generalize their issues as pertaining to all Filipinas.
I am married for 13 years to a lovely Filipina woman. We have one child together. To any newbies on this site please ignore the comments from the old, bitter men on this site. A lot of the guys complaining here cannot get women in their own country so it is no wonder when their Filipina wife or gf dumps them. Salamat from a happy 50yo US citizen happily married. Sorry to burst your bubble, mate, but I have it on extremely good authority that the vast majority of Filipinas are nothing but soulless, money-grubbing pieces of sh t.
Good on you CMorgan. Clearly not many brain cells there. Can only speak for myself, but my Filipina Mrs of 8 years works herself into the ground to help her immediate family have a better life and I begrudge none of it. When I go there and see what little they have and how welcoming and generous they all are with that little, it puts things in perspective for me, and all of us, no matter where we come from, would want to do something to make their lives better.
The trick is in how you do it…. They stand out a mile and the signs are obvious. Always protective of his devices too that one. I am not the type to go all haywire but i used my connect to get someone that helped get access to his phone and laptop whose mail is rootgatehacksAT tutanota dot com I also got his dating site accounts and i was so devastated.
I had to leave him beacuse i can always do better than that. I find myself on this site out of curiosity. However, a few days ago I joined an international dating site called InternationalCupid. I find it odd that that these women would consider my dark skin when the magic-white is so high in demand. I cant help but feel there is an angle or window of opportunity being sought. Then again, I have received a few hits with BS degrees working as nurses or self employed.
By all accounts, I consider myself to be equal to my magic skin counterparts. Therefore, any woman i choose should also be professional. It lead me here. It is simple. I have been to the Philippines and the people work so hard to survive there. I have heard stories of doctors coming to the USA and working as nurses because they make a better living here. Girls who in the Philippines who are nurses have salaries that are probably equivalent to working a minimum wage job here.
The families in the Philippines are more like the families of people born here before They are closer to one another because they know how much they need each other. If you are interested in a Filipina bride I am sure you would be happy with one. Filipino people are generally very fun hard working people. Just my 2 cents. Good stuff.
Some very good — albeit general insights into Filipino women and culture. I have had so many bad experiences, encountered many lies. However, I know it is only a small percentage of pinays who are mischievous and dishonest. I am writing my book as I am sick of Westerners with little good to say about Filipinas. Lack of compassion, empathy, and education are the result of this, so I want to help inform others that Filipinas ARE, in fact, the best women ever created.
I also have a lot of Pilipino art on my instagram blaisebullwits. God bless you and Salamat for sharing this. Hi all…. I am Inai…half chinese half pinay…. I still hold my filipino passport….. So I am a modern and indipendent wife and we share everything …. Iam crazy for his white skin,blond hair and the green eyes…. But he must taste a another girl …also a filipina….. I can trust him and his promises and words…. A Foreigner give you the feeling you are a Poccahontas asian princess even we are an modern couple he surprise me and carry me on his hands…..
So its not only the apperance from the western guys…its her attitude…. And supporting my family…. I do it with my income and he support my nice to became a nurse…but it was his own choice to do it…. Best regards from Germany Inai and Peter. Hi, Kach! It was nice getting across your article. And, mind you, I was shocked by most of the comments here, and kind of scared and confused me more.
I was uncomfortable of this so-called online dating, so I blocked him and deleted my account after less than a week on chat. However, he was able to find a way to find me, and get in touch with me, and was able to convince me to give it a chance. Unlike the picture of a Filipina that is being depicted by a lot of people here, I am in a totally different angle:. He had been insisting for marriage as soon as he comes, but I insisted on spending more time first to be able to get to know each other better — and to expose each other on our respective life, cultures, etc.
So, you see, for those who readily make assumptions, not all Filipinas are too eager to marry a foreigner, most especially for money. Being able to provide for us financially would just be a bonus. Most of us are independent and hardworking, and are ready to help our man in that area. In the first place, marriage for most of us, is through thick and thin.
I know a lot who have been happily married for years. It always takes two to tango. As for myself, I will be giving mine a chance. I will be open-minded. Whatever feedbacks I am getting will serve as lessons. Thanks, everyone, for all the comments! By the way, my man and I are of the same age 41 , both single, never been married, no kids. We are both well-educated, well-traveled and gainfully employed. My family may not be rich, but we take pride in being independent, hardworking and honest people.
Thanks Sherell, this is exactly what had happened to me recently what I have been through as you described. My pinay suddenly exploded and cut off our chat relation after just a few days knowing each other.
She cited she is scared and confused and reasoned that it was too fast to decide for marriage when we were still stranger to each other. We regretted what we have done and asked forgiveness. I think I will give her another try as I know she is sincere in her talk after introducing her family background. I should be very careful this time. I am from a neighboring country of the Philipine and of Asian origin. To me. Specifically, a Korean man. Asian guy, not Western but has white skin — who cares?
Like Kach said, not all Filipina wants money from his foreigner boyfriend. I feel sad reading comments here thinking that most Filipinas are only after the Visa and money. Before I met my bf, I have also been in different countries with visa.
I earn and save my own money to be able to travel. My boyfriend and I travels, too. Yes, we pay for our own. I never asked my bf to pay for my expenses even at times he insists. I always remind him that if I have to pay something for myself, he needs to let me pay for it.
And in our travels, we always make sure that we have equally divided our expenses so there will be no fighting who pays for this and that. Relationship works in 2 ways not just one way. Like in any country, women and even men differ from one another. Cheers everyone! The article is NOT the truth at all. I actually doubt this person is a real person. So bollocks to the concept of what the article attempts top portray, it just aint the way it really is.
You are entitled to your own opinion. I respect that. But just a quick unsolicited statements… 1. We have our way of saving money when we really want something. And just so you know, in surveys, there are more successful women in the Philippines than men. Gets paid higher than men, too. So yes, we can pay for ourselves. Thank you. Indeed, we have limited places to go with our passport because most countries requires visa.
Why so worked-up with visas anyway? So what if we want to go to a country with visa? Did it killed you or were you the one who took time to apply for it? We travel because we want to and we can afford it because we worked to earn it. We all need a little vacation from time to time. Filipinas generally have long patience but we know how to fight back when we are being stepped on. In time, the woman gets fed-up and starts to fight back.
I have tons of Filipina friends who are married to foreigners and others got divorced. I, for one is in a relationship with a foreigner. But money or greed of visa never crossed my mind. I enjoy being in a relationship and I am happy with how we run things considering that we are in an LDR.
And if you ever experienced something bad with a Filipina, my apologies in behalf of my fellow Filipinas. I hope you find a good partner who can show you real relationship. I look Asian but still distinctly foreign.
She is a dancer and works in a night club. Always remember that if she can do this to anyone, she can do this to you. I was all cognitive dissonant. How we met is a peculiar incident. It is not in a club. It just happened. Very easy to romanticise it, but I would cut the story short.
Trust is not solid, but I was still very much in love. Eventually I stayed with her in the Philippines for a period of time. Not a good experience but I will not go into details. The ending of the relationship could have exposed me to danger and killed me in the process.
If I ever made it safe I would really never return to this place. However, what changed later on was the support I had from the a few friends I made in the Philippines. We are just friends, but she demonstrated great virtues, and her friends who does not necessarily fall into the scammer strata.
At least from my first-hand experience that is. Because even my other Filipino friends are telling me that they are the same, it just takes time to reveal. Oh yeah, she had so many excuses for what she believes in so doing. Bottom line is Filipinas cannot be trusted. Not one damn bit of trust should be afforded to them. So, I blocked both of them, my daughter and her, off my mind to remain sane and healthy. Que Sera Sera. Many men are satisfied with their Filipina wives and can trust them because they are trustworthy.
Are you able to look back and see what red flags you missed the first time? Hope the next time is better. Listen in this time and age it is difficult to meet a woman who is not online on dating sites. However you have to look for red flags and test the woman. See if she talks every day to you.
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